Men are kind of like stoplights when it comes to being in the mood for sex. There’s “HELL YES,” there’s “You can convince me,” and then there’s “Get the fuck away.” You can start a man out with “You can convince me,” and get him to “HELL YES.” It’s all about waiting your turn and abiding by the rules of the road. Or, in this case, head. (You decide which.)
Women are not like stoplights— we’re like taxi cabs. Either our light is on, or our light is off. There’s no convincing us to flick it one way or the other once we’ve already made up our mood. So when a woman’s light is on, and as plain to see as if we were actually holding a neon sign above ourselves that read “Open For Your Business,” in the iconic words of Sugarhill Gang,jump on it. Because when a woman is closed, she’s closed. There’s no changing her mind. Unlike with men, there’s no amount of ego-stroking or caressing that can make her change the way she feels about your chances for that moment. Keep in mind, for a week out of every month, we’re bleeding, and there are also the nights we eat or drink too much or just aren’t feeling all that sexual. Even I sometimes wind up not feeling all that sexual. I’ve been working lately on the whole not-getting-drunk-and-having-sex-thing, and without that cushy fog of inebriation, it’s true what they say: it makes you feel better about yourself, and when I’m not thoroughly convinced by the beer goggles that I am slammin’, I’m winding up a lot more in the “off” camp than in the “on” camp.
This is why it sucks for you guys but why we women think men are great. When a woman wants to have sex, she can usually convince her partner it seems like a great idea. (Reason #324 it’s great to be a lady.) However, on the flip-side, if we can’t convince you to turn on when we are, it’s like the Great Depression of 2010. There is much hair-tearing and emotional rending. In short, it really sucks (invisible) balls.
- Reposted excerpt from SATCG; October 2010