"This whole world is wild at heart, and weird on top."
The things you pick up as you go.
Officially adding choking onto the list of things I’m into. It’s not so much the submission factor of it that gets me (though all of my kinks do indicate a latent desire in being forced into submission); it’s more the idea of trust behind it— trust that he knows when to stop. Trust that he’s paying attention to the pressure he’s exerting. Trust that he at least likes you enough to not kill you (kidding, though truthful).
Also, I’ve subconsciously held my breath to the point of black-out for the last few years while approaching/achieving orgasm, so I think it’s pretty close to that idea, too…at least enough for me to be not as leery of the act than I may have been in years previous. Once I realized I naturally do it, anyway, I just found it makes my orgasms more explosive.
…Though I’m definitely developing a preference for this sort of one-handed neck-hold than straight face-to-face choking. A.) I don’t care how you’re doing it, you’re going to make weird little noises, and at least having your faces separated makes it a bit less self-conscious for yourself. And B.) That moment when he gets a hold of you by the front of your neck and hauls you back for a passionate, open-mouth kiss during doggy-style that says “I own you right now”?
Done. Finito. ALL THE EMOTIONS AND ORGASMS.